If you’ve ever wondered about the appeal of hockey players, how they manage to remain productive and fit, you’re in luck because we’re about to tell you! Turns out there’s a reason why hockey players are so good in bed…
Here’s the deal: although the NHL has settled down from its earlier seasons, the league is still relatively unrecognized as a whole in the bedroom. It’s not because the players aren’t capable of having sex- it’s because the majority of them still consider it a sin to be too physically intimate with a member of the opposite sex. This belief in abstaining from sex until marriage prevents many players from acting on their desires, even if they’re married or in a committed relationship. Naturally, this leads to a lot of frustration for both parties involved, and arguably, an overall lower quality of sex life for the players.
However, that doesn’t have to be the case! As you’ll soon discover, there’s a reason why some players are better in bed than others…
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The Hockey Metaphor
To truly understand the appeal of hockey players in bed, you need to look no further than their preferred sport. Through intense physical contact and a high degree of mental focus, hockey players master the art of multitasking, which in return, helps them be better in bed. It’s not that the sport itself is responsible for their skills in the bedroom, but without a doubt, it helps.
Now, this doesn’t mean that all hockey players are good in bed, or even that most of them are. There is certainly a noticeable difference in the way skilled players approach sex, as opposed to, say, Dan Boyle, who is arguably more of a liability in the bedroom than an asset (we’ll get to that in a bit). Nevertheless, the association between hockey and sex is certainly beneficial for the individuals that play it, and those that watch it.
Better Coordination
Like many other sports, hockey is a team sport. This requires a lot of collaboration between the players on the field, and it shows in the bedroom. The better the coordination between the partners, the more satisfying the sexual experience will be for both parties involved.
Now, it takes more than good coordination to be able to have impressive sex with a hockey player. Sure, you might be able to bang one or two, but to really score, you need to have the skill to please your partner effectively. To achieve this, you need to practice. That’s where having a personal life coach comes in handy, specifically someone who can help you work on your skills and the mental approach that makes or breaks a good fuck. Without limiting yourself to just one area, it would be best to work with a sex therapist, who can help you identify your personal weak spots and work on making them stronger.
Improved Mental Health
Hockey players are known to be rather introverted individuals. This doesn’t mean that they don’t like going out there and knocking a few beers with their teammates after a hard day of work. It’s just that they prefer their own company, and seeing as how they spend a good deal of their time alone, working out, and in seclusion, it’s no wonder why they’re rather isolated when it comes to dating and sex. This is why it’s important to bring someone into their lives who understands where they’re coming from and who can help them express their desires in a more appropriate and healthy manner.
This is also why it’s beneficial for hockey players to have such a strong belief in personal purity. It makes them much less likely to act on their desires in the bedroom, and when they do, it’s usually a fairly one-sided activity. The player and the partner may have good intentions, but without realizing it, they’re both acting out of ego, and not out of desire for personal satisfaction. Naturally, this can lead to a great deal of resentment on the part of the partner, who may feel as though they’re not being fair to their partner, since they’re not being honest about their intentions. Sometimes, this resentment can even lead to cheating, something that the players would rather avoid.
Increased Confidence
One of the great things about hockey is that it’s a team sport. This means that even when you’re playing by yourself, you still have teammates to help you out. As a female hockey player, you’ll often find yourself competing with other women for the attention of the male players. Naturally, this can make you significantly more confident, even if you don’t necessarily feel that way. When you’re getting ready for bed, you’ll often hear the words ‘I’m so happy that we’re finally getting to sleep together’ uttered by frustrated hockey players, who are unable to keep their hands or their mouths off the goods.
Now, this doesn’t mean that every hockey player is confident, nor does it mean that being confident in bed will make you a better player, but it definitely helps.
Overall, A More Productive Sex Life
Like any sports-related article, this one will eventually wrap up with some helpful tips for those that play or watch the game. While there’s no direct correlation between hockey and productivity, it’s still one of the most respected sports, if not the most respected. This respect comes from the fact that hockey players are usually considered to be amongthe most professional and industrious people in the world of sports. Having a higher degree of mental focus and being more coordinated certainly help with productivity, as does an increased sense of confidence.
So, how does all of this relate to sex? Let’s revisit the previously mentioned purity belief of the players. Naturally, this comes from a place of good intent; the individuals that uphold this belief genuinely want to keep their partners satisfied and wanting more, while also wanting to keep their personal lives separate from their partner’s. Unfortunately, this means that they’ll often avoid talking about sex, or being open about their desires, which can make it much harder for both individuals to have a fulfilling sexual relationship.
So, what are the tips for those who want to have satisfying and productive sex with a hockey player? First and foremost, you need to make sure that both of you are on the same page with regard to your intentions. Just like the player’s purity belief, this can prevent a lot of frustration and resentment on the part of your partner, who may feel as though you’re not being honest with them. Therefore, it’s a good idea to discuss with your partner what you’re planning to do, and why you’re doing it, especially if you want to have quick and efficient intercourse. If you want to give your partner a memorable and enjoyable experience in bed, then make sure that you prepare the right way for it. Just like any other athlete, hockey players need to eat healthy and maintain a good level of fitness, which will in turn, help them perform better in bed and satisfy their partners sexually.